YOUR QUESTIONS: Also you say that there's no such thing as straight/gay/ etc then please explain to me... You like women and you would never do anything with a man? So therefore you are straight. That's the collective name for people with your preferences?

There is 'straight' and 'gay' sexual behaviour/practices. An individual is not and should not, in my opinion, be classed as either 'straight' or 'gay'. I practice straight sex, I am not myself 'straight'. When you become the personification of a sexuality, it becomes an identity of who you are and therefore something that is very difficult to change. Less so in your mind, more in the minds of others. More importantly, it is unhelpful for society at large to understand the natural pliability of human sexuality if groups of individuals are attempting to take ownership over large aspects of it. We do, we are not.