YOUR QUESTIONS: We ask questions and you answer them, true. Equally true is you cannot be held responsible for the answer's perception in the questioner's mind. That said, however, we are all aware if we are being inflammatory, mundane or even slightly provocative.

Provocative is good. Nothing wrong with that. 


Inflammatory? About what, whom? 


Mundane, well, that is your perception. We can all be mundane. 


None of those have anything to do with being patronising or conceited.